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We have so many doubters. We have so many of those people that say no and you cannot do it. That is impossible but when you start doubting yourself that is very dangerous. But now what are you basically saying is that if you plan does not work, I have a fall back plan. I have a plan B. That mean you start thinking about plan B and every thought you put in plan B. You are taking away that thought and that energy from plan A.
It is very important to understand that we function better, if there is no safety net. Because plan B becomes a safety net. If I fail that and get picked up and have something else there, that will perfect me. And that is not good. Because people perform better when there is not safety net that is a plan B. It is very dangerous to have a plan B. Because you are cutting yourself off from the chance of really succeeding.
One of the main reason why people want to have plan B is because they have worried about falling. What is if, I fall then I do not have anything else? Do not be a fear of falling because there is nothing wrong with failing. You have to fall in order to climb the ladder. There is not one that does not fail.
Michael Jordan said in one of these interviews, you are unbelievable, you are one of the greatest basketball player of all times, tell me about that. And he say well, you are just mentioning the success. For me to become the greatest basketball player, I missed 9,000 shots when I was playing basketball in the NBA games. During these games that he was so successful, he missed 9,000 shots. Does it make him a failure? No, he is one of the greatest basketball player of all times. But he failed 9,000 times.
Do you get it? What is another case is when you fall, you stay down. Whoever stays down, is a loser. And winners will fail and get up and winner is a failing and get up. You always get up that is a winner. We all lose, we all have losers. That is ok. Do not be worried about losing. Because when you are afraid of losing, then you get frozen, you get stiff. You are not relaxed. You got to be, in order to perform well in anything. It is ok to fail. Let us just go all out and give it everything that you got that is what it all about. So do not be afraid to fail.
