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By allowing the person who has wronged you to swarm your everyday thoughts and control your underlying emotions, you are literally allowing them to walk free with your happiness in their hands. You are giving them the opportunity to strip you of your positive emotions and ruin your entire day, week or month. Do not let this happen. Control yourself, control your life.
By simply speaking the word, I forgive you and letting all of it go, you are the ultimate winner. You are reclaiming your happiness and therefore a piece of your life.
Unleashing your temper, even if you are doing so occasionally, often births anger issues that hand over control to your emotions. This makes you behave irrationally and surrender control of your life. It can be very challenging to be successful if you have serous anger issues, no one want to be around you to support whatever it is you are pursuing because of your regular anger outbursts.
By letting the other person or situation take the wheel of your thoughts and emotions, you surrender control of your own life. Forgiveness is the tool which allows you to remain control of that wheel. It will give you the opportunity to take charge of all your decisions and live a beautiful life consisting of nothing other than health, wealth, love and happiness.
Since you have completely freed yourself of the undermining power of negative thought, energy and lack of control of your own happiness, you will be surprised to witness just how many new opportunities will begin to pop up in to your life. But it is not that they were created from thin air, it is that you have freed space in your mind and have regained control of your positive mentality, allowing to you to truly think and notice all opportunities around you.
Even if you are unable to physically say the words, I forgive you to the person, mentally say them to yourself. Alone, this will allow you to free yourself from negative constraint and experience life in a more positive and progressive manner.
It is important to find a healthy and positive balance in your life. Carrying around old baggage from someone who has wronged you is not helping you maintain that balance. Clear the space in your head and look forward to new and exciting opportunities and most importantly happiness.
Undoubtedly, it is clear to see that forgiveness is a crucial factor when it comes to building a positive mentality. Although this may be one of the most difficult habits to follow, it is truly one of the most important. Therefore, in order to experience greater ease in this, here is a list of guidelines that helped me in the beginning of my metal transformation. I hope it helps you as well.
