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To live in moderation means to live a balanced life, no extremes. Successful people avoid excess, wild emotional swings, addictions, obsessions, binging, starvation, extravagances and fanatical behavior. They keep their thoughts and emotions on a short leash. They understand the need to be an even keel and in control of their lives.
Successful people do not binge, cram, over indulge or behave in an excessive manner. They understand that life is a marathon and not s print. They moderate their work hours, eating habits, exercise, watching television, reading, internet use, phone conversations, emails, text messages, conversations, entertainment, and sexual relations and so on. Their personalities reflect this moderate mindset. They do not become overly excited or excessively melancholy. They are even tempered and slow to anger or excitement. Their moderate mindset puts family, friends, colleagues and business partners at ease, which helps improve relationships. As a consequence, people enjoy being around them. There is a comfort level in dealing with them in all matters.
Successful people eat, drink, entertain and live moderate lifestyles. Contrary to what many believe and as a general rule, their homes, cars, personal effects, vacations, etc., are not extravagant. Warren Buffet, one of the wealthiest individuals in the world, has lived in the same home he was matted in more than fifty years age. His home is modest with no fence or surrounding wall. While he owns a private jet business, he lies commercial airlines. He drives back and forth to work in his car every day. Warren buffer lives this rich habit on a daily basis.
Unsuccessful people live in extremes. They eat too much and drink too much. They overreact to events. They permit their emotions to swing in extreme manners, which create great conflict and pain in their relationships. Emotions such as anger, happiness, love, hate, jealousy and envy are placed on a very long leash, perhaps reeled in momentarily when their most important relationships are placed in jeopardy. They obsess over food, drink, sex, dug, and groups. Personable processions, their opinions, their thoughts and their actions.
Unsuccessful people have little control over their live. They have wild swings in their moods which result in strained health, strained relationships and strained finances. Their spending patterns are continuously influenced by others. If they fall into money somehow, they spend this money on bog homes and expensive cars to impress others. Mortgages and loans stretch them financially. Many refinance their homes in an effort to maintain their lifestyles. An unexpected event, such as a job loss, temporary disability or sudden decline in earning, results in immediate financial catastrophe because unsuccessful people live paycheck to paycheck. They have not savings or financial safety net. Their priorities are misplaced. They are incapable of living moderate lifestyles, prioritizing their needs correctly or loving within their means.
