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You become what you think about most of the time. In the area of problems and difficulties, successful people have a particular way of thinking that we call solution orientation.
Successful people think about solutions most of the time. Unsuccessful people think about problems and difficulties most of the time. Solution oriented people are constantly looking for ways to get over, around and past the obstacles that stand in their way. Problem oriented people talk continually about their problems, who or what caused them, how unhappy or angry they are and now unfortunate it is that they have occurred. Solution oriented people, on the other hand, simply ask the question, how can we solve this? And then take action to deal with the problem.
Between you and anything yu want to accomplish you will always find problems or obstacle of some kind. This is why success is sometime defined as the ability of solve problems. Personal leadership is the ability to solve problems. So is affectedness. All men and women who accomplish anything of importance are people who have developed the ability to solve the problem that stand between them and their goals.