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Have a Purposeful Goal
Resilience comes easy when you know what you are striving for. To be truly gritty, it is important that you pursue your goals. If you do not have any goal, your life will be purposeless. Success will come by chance and you are unlikely to be swayed by anything that comes by. When you lack a sense of purpose, setbacks will easily distract you and you will take your eyes off the prize.
A purpose can be anything, cultivating, spirituality, a monetary goal, striving for happiness in a relationship or anything else you truly yearn for. On the other hand, a sincere purpose is one that makes you feel accomplished and happy and one that aligns your inner most values with your desires.
To find your goal or sense of purpose, think of any area of your life you want to improve and then find out what you truly want to achieve in that area. If you are thinking of your financial life, think of what you truly desire. Think about what you want your objective to be and what its purpose serves. While dong that consider your strengths and past accomplishments. This will allow you to set a personal, customized and measureable goal.
Similarly, think of what sort of goals you want to set in terms of health, happiness, relationships, love, spirituality etc. Create many goals relating to different aspects your life and then write them down. Regularly visit those goals so they can remain in your mind and sight. This way, you will stay focused on the bigger picture an whenever a setback in that area strikes you, it will bruise you but not throw you off balance.
Believe in Yourself Every Day
Start placing more faith in your yourself. You have already learnt how to discover you strengths and hone them, now all you must do in truly believe.
What is to believe you may ask? Well, what is to know the difference between your right hand and your left hand? What is it know that one dollar plus another dollar equals two dollars?
You may think that believing and knowing are two different things but they truly are not.
If you believe in yourself as much as you are convinced that one plus one equals two, you will be completely limitless. Your life will not only become whatever you want it to be but you will change the world.
Believe that you have the power to change not only your life, but the lives of the many that surround you. Believe that a limitation is only a limitation if you perceive it a one. If you begin to believe that you will start to understand the undeniable truth that there are not such things as limitations. In consequence, once you begin to truly understand that you will become unstoppable. The moment you start trusting your talents in the moment you know you have what it takes to move forward and emerge victorious even when all hell breaks loose.
From this day forward, frequently go through your achievements and appreciate and reward yourself for your strengths. This way, you will say confident even when adversity knocks you down.
Embrace Change
Being resilient does not just mean stubbornly holding on to what you believe in, it also means being flexible and adaptable to different circumstances. As is often the case, most adversities are not obstacles at all, they are opportunities in disguise. If you do not know how to embrace change, you are likely to miss an excellent opportunity only to realize your mistake later on.
Resilient people are flexible because they know the right way to react to a situation. To be truly resilient, be flexible. If you work on building the habits of trying new things daily and seeing the good in every situation, you will slowly nurture the habit of embracing change. This will improve your level of resilience and help you seek opportunities.
Work on these three keys and within a short time, your level of resilience will increase, you will become mentally stronger and happier and you will experience the massive success that can only be experienced by a small group of people, those who create the right change.
